Ten Ways A Woman Can Scare A Man Off | By CB aka LouAlcindor

August 13, 2008

Ten Ways to Scare a Man Off

As a single man getting to know a woman, things can get a little complicated. It is hard enough being single in this crazy ass world but when a woman does or says certain things that are questionable a man can’t help but put on his track shoes and make a break for it. I will be the first to admit I have left a woman on more than one occasion in a dust cloud because she showed certain signs that raised a red flag the size of a football field. So I am going to go head and give the ladies a little incite on why that certain guy you really liked slipped away. Maybe you have been guilty of committing some of the following acts. I hope these pointers help and hopefully the men you meet will stop commmiting dissappearing acts.

CB’S Top Ten Ways a Woman Can Scare a Guy Off

10. Poor Public Etiquette

Most men do no ask for a whole lot. But when we first meet try to act like you have a little bit of class especially in public. For instance if a guy takes you to a nice restaraunt then act like you been somewhere nice before. That means dress appropriate for the occasion and do not get loud with your conversation. Bringing unwanted attention to you and him is not a good look and it will get yo ass left at the dinner table.

9. Don’t be too quick to get the D***………

Despite popular belief not all men want to run you straight to the bed to get between your legs. So when just getting to know a guy please don’t over push the sex thing more than he does. It makes you look desperate. Like for instance if a guy comes over and you only known him for 2 days don’t answer the door with nothing but pantie draws on and a robe swung open with your titties swangin. He will think you are just a quick beat and skeet and keep it pushing. This will not get you a chance for anything meaningful. That just tells a guy to just leave it alone or just beat it up and keep it pushing.

8. Always Mentioning Ex’s

When I first meet a chick I do not want to know nor do I give a damn about what your previous boyfriend was like. I don’t want to hear about yall problems, why yall broke up, what he used to do to you, blah, blah, blah!
If a womans spends too much time talking about her ex then I feel she need to go back to his ass. If you constantly talking about him then he must have been a great guy so you might as well go rekindle the flame.

7. Talk about yall future…….

If you just recently met the guy talking about yall future together is not a good idea. How can you foresee a future with a guy you just met. If you sitting up there talking about you want to have his kids and get married and all that then he is for sure not gone be calling or seeing you ever again. These are things you mention as time passes and both parties are ready to begin those discussions.

6. Say the ” I miss you babe”…..

after only knowing you for a week or two, sometimes less than that. If a guy barely knows yo ass then you don’t need to be calling him babe or baby or any other name women call their boyfriends. You really should be ashamed of yourself if you do not even know the guys last name or even his mommas first name. Get to know the guy before you pull out all these relationship cute names.

5. Call him and text him excessively……

When just meeting a guy you have to ease into getting to know him. If you find yourself calling him back to back to back and you have not given him a chance to return your phone call then you are doing way too much. And chances is that guy your calling is raising a red flag. And please don’t call him and then text him repeatedly asking “where you at? i’ve been calling you”. I can’t speak for all men but this type of shit scares me. If you and a guy have a thing where you call each other alot then thats one thing but if you doing all the calling and texting then thats a major problem. DO NOT STALK A MAN THROUGH TEXT, EMAIL, PHONE CALLS, INTERNET, AND ANY OTHER WAY YOU CAN GET A HOLD OF HIM!

4. Jump Off Tendacies

There are many jump off tendancies a woman can have but I will only cover a few that bother me. When you and a guy are in public and you often see dudes you know and you are constantly hugging all over them, that raises a red flag. Do not get me wrong it is nothing bad about hugging and saying hello to your guy friends you know but when it comes excessive and the guys says things like “when you gone come see me” or “Imma call you tonight”, then that tells me that these guys you call “friends” are more than that. It tells me that you get really friendly with these guys in your spare time. And please women stop calling guys that are your friends your “brothers”, “cousins”, ect. Nobody is buying these cover up names, you do not let your family beat on your cakes unless you into keeping in the family (and thats a whole different blog).

3. Show up @ his crib unannounced…

This is a absolute no no! Don’t eva eva eva eva (Smokey from Friday voice) show up at his place without calling first. First of all you don’t know who he may have over already so you inviting yo self over unannounced is not a good look. And second and most importantly you are not his chick so don’t give yourself privileges that have not yet and may never be giving to you. This is a sure sign that you might be a crazy broad if you just pop up at the crib. And please do not try the whole thing where you text him saying “what you doing” and when he says “nothing chillin at the house” and then you say “im outside”. That is some absolutely preliminary psychotic shit.

2.Bad Hygiene…..

It is very important that you demonstrate good hygiene. No man wants a woman that does not bathe on a regular(2-3 times a day). Because if a woman aint washing her ass on the regular then nine times out of ten her chocha(vagina) ain’t smelling up to par and that will get a man from running from yo ass to sprinting from yo ass. Also brushing your teeth at least twice a day will help as well, also remember to scrub your tongue and keep the breath on point. It is a deal breaker when a woman looks good and you lean in and her breath smells like she eats bobo puffs for breakfast. Women please remember to keep your hair looking nice as well. It does not matter if you go to the beauty shop or you do it yourself , please comb your hair and make sure it is presentable. Men do not want to be seen out with you with your hair looking like you just rolled out of bed. Last but not least keeping your hands and feet nice is a must as well. Just like ya hair, you do not have to go to the nail shop but as long as you keep them managed then you are fine. And please do not forget to keep your feet moisturized, if your feet look like they are about to crack and bleed then you need to holla at a bottle of vasaline real quick or baby oil, anything to add moisture.

1. Too many kids and Baby Daddy Troubles…

Now I’m not against kids at all, kus Chaddy Chad loves him the kids. But when you got so many kids you can start your own sports team then thats a problem. With kids come baby daddies. No matter what a man does the kids father has to have a relationship with the mother and in alot of cases that causes friction. The moment there is any tension between the guy and a womans kids father then you better believe the guy is going to bounce on you immediately. At this point we as guys say to oursleves, “This is not worth because I refuse to be the next in line as the babies daddy….I’ll pass”. So the best thing you can do is find a guy with a bunch of kids and your kids and his kids can get together on Saturdays and compete against each other in sports competitions.

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